Missin' an Ex.

topic posted Fri, September 28, 2007 - 12:28 PM by  philip
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Do you ever find yourself missing your ex lover: all the good times both of you once used to have and wishing that things hadn't turned so bad between the two of you?
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  • Re: Missin' an Ex.

    Sat, September 29, 2007 - 1:32 AM
    phillip sure I do,......... I dig him up fondle him a bit and put him back inthe ground

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      Re: Missin' an Ex.

      Sun, September 30, 2007 - 11:34 PM
      vertain things I miss...not exactly the person though
      • Re: Missin' an Ex.

        Thu, October 4, 2007 - 9:12 AM
        My ex. was lousy in bed, and aside from whinning everytime into my ear about this or that like a rolling turntable record, I celebrated the day she left my life.
        • Re: Missin' an Ex.

          Thu, October 4, 2007 - 10:45 AM
          now we all know now why u dont miss ur ex..;-)
          • Re: Missin' an Ex.

            Thu, October 4, 2007 - 11:00 AM
            Thank you. Didn't want anyone else thinking that I don't make comments while I'm here.
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              Mon, October 8, 2007 - 11:16 AM
              You always miss something about you ex it is natural. You were attracted to them for SOME reason to begin with so it is very likely that you will miss something. To be honest I miss shopping with her (don’t laugh guys), also she was pretty fit and active (hiking, skiing, mountain biking & gym). I am too so this translated to a lot of time spent together.
  • Re: Missin' an Ex.

    Tue, October 9, 2007 - 8:12 PM
    Yeah....and then I do something like hang out with them a bit. And then that longing might get worse. Maybe even sleep with them again. Then, I hang out with them a little more, and then I realize....only dumb people do that. Ex's are an ex for a reason. Yeah, I don't think being friends with an ex actually works that well anymore. I used to be on the opposite side of that arguement, espousing all the virtues for keeping people that you have loved in your life and not throwing out the friendship with the love affair blah blah blah. I also used to think current committed lovers shouldn't worry about ex's either. That's before I knew better. I feel like all the stuff I've been through the past ten years with ex's has shown me the light. I have one ex in my circle at this point, and that's only because we have a daughter together. If it wasn't for that, good riddance.
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      Wed, October 10, 2007 - 3:10 PM
      i must agree with Meli....there was a time that u could stay as friends...that shit dont work no more...leave that for TV,,not in the real world..;-)
      • Re: Missin' an Ex.

        Mon, October 15, 2007 - 2:22 PM
        Staying in touch with Exs is a touchy topic, but the question started with "thinking" about Exes. I think about many of my exes, but not neccessarily longingly.

        But I think we all have one person (at least) that we are not with, and will never be with, and can never be with, and might never even see again, that we think of. Sometimes even fondly.

        But honestly, who is it here that has an EX that they only think of Negatively, or Positively?

        I've found that it's always a mix.....
        • Re: Missin' an Ex.

          Mon, October 15, 2007 - 2:30 PM
          yeah..ur right hooman..there will always be mix feelings on that matter..good or bad..we always rememder something that touched us ,,in one way or another...
        • Re: Missin' an Ex.

          Mon, October 22, 2007 - 3:43 PM
          actually mine tends to be all negative thoughts. Was married over 11 years been trying to think of one time I was happy with her.I'm not really a bitter person until it comes to her.

          Now my first girlfriend do miss her at times, still kicking myself for not having sex with her when she asked. I would have to say if I have the chance now think I would take her up on it. Not that I want to get together just a piece of ass. Maybe just to relive that night 25 yeasrs ago.
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            Mon, October 22, 2007 - 3:49 PM
            joe...;-) u r some shit..(LOL) ha,ha,ha,ha, so u would only do it for that sweet peace of ass? Dame..so ur saying..she offered it and u didnt take it??why?
            • Re: Missin' an Ex.

              Tue, October 23, 2007 - 1:48 PM
              I don't know if this case is similar with Joe's some how.
              One time after visiting my kids, I went to the bedroom to say good night, and she was on the bed naked and started begging me to make love to her, and I said no.
              Contrary to Joe, I do not regret it; it actually helped me to realize I didn't have any feelings for her anymore.
            • Re: Missin' an Ex.

              Thu, October 25, 2007 - 11:48 AM
              Well at the time had no protection, normally at the time it would not have stopped me, but my older brother got his girlfriend pregnant and I got to see first hand all the troublr he had to go through. I didn't want that for me, plus would have been the first time for both of us. So it should be a worry free memory.

              but now I would tap that given the chance

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