Datting Someone in Service

topic posted Tue, September 25, 2007 - 12:41 PM by  philip
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How comfortable are you with the idea of wanting to date someone who's in the service, be it military, navy or any other?
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  • Re: Datting Someone in Service

    Wed, September 26, 2007 - 11:29 AM
    I used to live right outside of Ft. Riley in KS, so it's happened. It has it's ups and downs. Fidelity is hard with long absences, however for casual dating it's pretty swank.

    Plus, sex in an army barracks is kinda hot. ;)
  • Re: Datting Someone in Service

    Fri, September 28, 2007 - 11:04 AM
    If you care about someone, what the heck has distance got to do with it? It isn't easy, but it's doable.
    • Re: Datting Someone in Service

      Fri, September 28, 2007 - 2:34 PM
      sweetie,,,,,,,,ur right...distance shouldnt matter..... but in time it dose- work over time on the heart..thats something no one can control...it can ether make u or brake u...its up to the person...and yes ur right its doable but for how long?;-) ...........im married to a navy man..(smile) 17yrs..but what works for me//may not work for u!!!!.............its hard thats all im saying...
      • Re: Datting Someone in Service

        Fri, September 28, 2007 - 3:22 PM
        Your right cc...... I was in the Coast Guard and all the black shoes had a hell of a time being gone so dam much.... I was in Aviation so I was home most nights. It's true you Navy gals have a hard time of it. But I must admit, many wives would be hanging out in the EM Club a month of so after the ship left, a lot of them had arrangements with there men to get a little when they were at sea, as long as they were at the dock when the old man came home......
        • Re: Datting Someone in Service

          Fri, September 28, 2007 - 3:34 PM
          sweetie..i know what u mean...dont get me wrong..i could of been one of those wives...oh yes i could of..with the hunger that i have 4 sex(LOL) but i wasnt...sunshine.. i had many friends who spent many loney nights and even in the arms of a stranger...im not saying its hard just 4 the girls...its even harder for them..not knowing what their girls are doing ..it gets to the point that he's doing someone and his wife is also doing the same thing..thats why i say..its hard,,very very hard..its diffrent when its just a booty call..but when we talking about love..its a whole diffrent ball game..
  • Re: Datting Someone in Service

    Sun, September 30, 2007 - 1:09 AM
    I was in the Navy and married. It wasn't easy for her. In fact, her insecurity tied in with allegations of stereotypical behavior is what killed out marriage. Personally, I would love to be with somebody who serves in uniform. Most military people are independent, strong willed, and decisive leaders. All traits I find admirable in somebody I'd want to be with.
    • Re: Datting Someone in Service

      Sun, September 30, 2007 - 10:29 AM
      What ya mean it wasn't easy for her....... didn't have a Coast Guard Base close by huh?.. I mean if it wasn't for us Coasties you Navy guys wouldn't have any kids..... snicker.....

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