http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4?format=rss Tribe.net. Local Connections http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#fdf06775-eea3-4d7b-970c-8818a46fc054 Moebius, it's true what you say about others seeing you as a slut, or not a slut. But it also goes the other way. You see someone as a slut or not a slut. So there IS a definition in your mind of a slut. Some of us see everyone as a slut. Some see no one as a slut. These people would have different definitions in their own minds of what a slut is. Or isn't. Mon, 16 Mar 2009 01:35:53 GMT http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#fdf06775-eea3-4d7b-970c-8818a46fc054 Lester 2009-03-16T01:35:53Z http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#627a5e38-d131-4bdf-a03e-44b70da25639 here it is . . . a slut fucks everyone. a bitch fucks everyone but you. lol! haha, i love that one. Fri, 13 Mar 2009 23:27:20 GMT http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#627a5e38-d131-4bdf-a03e-44b70da25639 Spirit 2009-03-13T23:27:20Z http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#219a466b-4855-497e-a1fc-3546cafb0d15 A slut is a classification and thus it is defined by others and not yourself. A 'slut' is something you are to another, not to yourself. Others may have vast definitions to classify, or more importantly vilify, berate, or scorn another. It will be based on varied ethics, but most often an insult cast like a stone from behind the shield of one who uses it to hide their own moral weakness and poverty of spirit. Some may take ownership of it, make it their own, take pride in the word, but it is still just a word. One that like many others has the power to cut deep into the hearts of people. One capable of hindering the healthy sexual attitude of curious minds and hands. One that should be treated like other words in the barrel of ignorance; SLUT, nigger, dyke, kike, pervert, spic, faggot, looser, etc. Thu, 12 Mar 2009 03:36:07 GMT http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#219a466b-4855-497e-a1fc-3546cafb0d15 Moebius 2009-03-12T03:36:07Z http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#c476e0fc-cbb4-4da1-8dc8-943d1b0107e2 There are no sluts, only women who occasionally act like men. David Tue, 02 Dec 2008 07:42:17 GMT http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#c476e0fc-cbb4-4da1-8dc8-943d1b0107e2 herbnerd 2008-12-02T07:42:17Z http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#cc4e6e06-8b76-4f66-8214-a38b09715190 a libra Sat, 18 Oct 2008 15:40:33 GMT http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#cc4e6e06-8b76-4f66-8214-a38b09715190 SynerGy 2008-10-18T15:40:33Z http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#b1e0ddc6-3bff-4627-9d96-ca62caac92c2 One of the best qualities of slutdom is the unapologetic nature of expressing sexuality. "Yes, I had sex with three strangers in one night. Yes, I would do it again." I don't think it has to do with how many, how often, or how risqué the activity, but more the attitude of the participant. It doesn't imply exhibitionism, an aversion to following rules or gender. Men are TOTALLY capable of being sluts, in fact, some of my favorite men are. :) Fri, 17 Oct 2008 23:18:29 GMT http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#b1e0ddc6-3bff-4627-9d96-ca62caac92c2 Astrea 2008-10-17T23:18:29Z http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#c9512e37-fb07-463a-9ffd-245c5521fc23 i heard a good one. A slut fucks everybody. A bitch fucks everybody but you. lol Mon, 06 Oct 2008 20:40:13 GMT http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#c9512e37-fb07-463a-9ffd-245c5521fc23 Spirit 2008-10-06T20:40:13Z http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#e8b5c883-d4e3-496a-93da-9e3de9fd2cea There is a fine line defining what a slut is. I think "B" came very close in the definition. But I agree that being a "slut" as compared to being a vixen or promiscuous is a matter of mindset. There's nothing wrong with a woman (or man for that matter) with a strong sexual appetite. It's more about intent than action. A true "slut" doesn't take into consideration their engaging partners feelings or ideas of what the encounter is about. For example: A woman can meet with a guy and lead him on to think that they are establishing a sort of connection. They have a sexual encounter and make him to believe that it's a prelude to either a) exclusive relations or b) special treatment towards relations. When the encounter is then finished, she becomes more selective when dealing with the man but still leads him on to think that he has a chance. Instead, she fools around with just about any other while still leading the prior on. This example is most common among what men think are "sluts". The encounter was quickly discarded and replaced without the understanding that the encounter was nothing more than "just a fuck". Mon, 06 Oct 2008 19:32:39 GMT http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#e8b5c883-d4e3-496a-93da-9e3de9fd2cea D^3 2008-10-06T19:32:39Z http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#7e1cf170-6c67-444e-9b06-bb1685655ef7 B "In my opinion a slut merely doesn't always think out their actions before pursuing them. " Given the situation you described, then what is the definition of the person who whispers what they would like and then does it in front of the clerk, but at a different location that isn't in an, obviously, improper place where families are around? Does that just hold to the exhibitionist category? Betcha..... ...there are multiple scenarios to think on, of which I only touched on one. Mon, 30 Jun 2008 16:22:16 GMT http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#7e1cf170-6c67-444e-9b06-bb1685655ef7 $item.owner.firstName 2008-06-30T16:22:16Z http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#7074fedd-5da8-4a74-8ecd-0cbace6aa1a8 YOu've got my vote totally on that. Mon, 30 Jun 2008 15:03:34 GMT http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#7074fedd-5da8-4a74-8ecd-0cbace6aa1a8 philip 2008-06-30T15:03:34Z http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#75ab623e-257c-4e14-8ce7-ace71cbd790f Using the definition given by B, above, I like both sluts and vixens. But given my choice, I would prefer the vixen. Slut is one of those words that means different things depending on how it is used, in what context. My ex-wife once gave me a handjob in line for the Indiana Jones ride at Disneyland. If it were a first date, and I thought of her as a slut, some would consider that to be a bad thing. Since we were married and in love, if I called her a slut, it would be a term of endearment. Sat, 28 Jun 2008 22:55:08 GMT http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#75ab623e-257c-4e14-8ce7-ace71cbd790f Lester 2008-06-28T22:55:08Z http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#60df2606-1790-4b95-82b2-631b390c5e33 slut is someone who engages in sex with multiple partners and sexually promiscuous in her/his own term.. for her/his own sensual or kink pleasure and takes pride in being one. Tue, 03 Jun 2008 21:21:05 GMT http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#60df2606-1790-4b95-82b2-631b390c5e33 Manutea 2008-06-03T21:21:05Z http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#5e9618c8-6560-4403-bb61-aea0d8d0ed86 Aggressiveness. Mon, 02 Jun 2008 17:58:56 GMT http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#5e9618c8-6560-4403-bb61-aea0d8d0ed86 Peter 2008-06-02T17:58:56Z http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#ba28eb83-9072-4ccb-9ddf-70d64a097622 But Jeremy, That makes a woman a bitch by your own individual opinion..... which is not necessarily a bitch, picky (her own reasons), but not a bitch!! Lynn Mon, 02 Jun 2008 08:33:05 GMT http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#ba28eb83-9072-4ccb-9ddf-70d64a097622 $item.owner.firstName 2008-06-02T08:33:05Z http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#3fdafe5b-03b5-4989-954d-8f8d8961997a Good definition I heard: A slut is a woman who will have sex with anyone. A bitch is a woman who will have sex with anyone but YOU. Sun, 01 Jun 2008 23:54:33 GMT http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#3fdafe5b-03b5-4989-954d-8f8d8961997a Jeremy 2008-06-01T23:54:33Z http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#46357dc4-a411-42eb-b8b0-56b78d3d717f I think that first of all you have to really love to fuck. And then you have to be ok with the fact that you love to fuck. And finally, you have to be ok with the fact that it is ok to actually fuck without feeling guilty about it. Sat, 31 May 2008 01:59:36 GMT http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#46357dc4-a411-42eb-b8b0-56b78d3d717f Geekster 2008-05-31T01:59:36Z http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#7f91d210-21df-4f3c-95fc-4a566c59d6d6 I definitely think it is an attitude/state of mind. Sun, 25 May 2008 16:53:24 GMT http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#7f91d210-21df-4f3c-95fc-4a566c59d6d6 Arcangel 2008-05-25T16:53:24Z http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#29b33c7f-1e01-42de-9729-0ec20ad9a1b2 Sluttiness is a state of mind. Sun, 25 May 2008 06:49:12 GMT http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#29b33c7f-1e01-42de-9729-0ec20ad9a1b2 musqrat 2008-05-25T06:49:12Z http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#df312763-1f51-4a7e-bbdb-6eb0276739ce I don't think that the number of encounters that one has in some set timeframe makes them a slut. In my mind a slut is really a more of an attitude/ way of projecting themselves. A vixen would whisper in your ear that she wants to do dirty thinks to you in front of the Safeway courtesy clerk. A slut will just unzip you and try to do dirty things to you in front of the same coutesy clerk. In my opinion a slut merely doesn't always think out their actions before pursuing them. But that's just MY opinion. p.s. I LOVE vixens! Sat, 24 May 2008 21:59:05 GMT http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#df312763-1f51-4a7e-bbdb-6eb0276739ce B 2008-05-24T21:59:05Z http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#98504807-eb45-4863-acb9-1cfb7ff4eb11 What makes a slut? Yes I know everyone will have a different definition but curious to hear yours. Do 7 dates (sexual encounters) in 7 days make one a slut? How about 9? or 4? what is the dividing line for you or in your mind?Maybe it is not the number of dates or encounters, perhaps it is simply about attitude. Enquiring minds want to know....... Sat, 24 May 2008 21:21:23 GMT http://frenzbeny.tribe.net/thread/7c4ca0ea-3af0-4823-8754-9e0ba179c7d4#98504807-eb45-4863-acb9-1cfb7ff4eb11 Simon 2008-05-24T21:21:23Z